JUSTIFICATIONS
due to guilt or love...
We have been taught from our childhood that if "you are right you need not give justification or explanations to others"
I quite agree to it but to some extent, I as an individual cannot apply it in every circumstance, situation or to every person.
If my words, thought, views or actions are misinterpreted by any third person (not really close to), I would stick to my pedagogy that if you are "right u need not give justification or explanation". I would give a damn care to what that person thinks. Here to some extent the ego answers it all. Not that the ego is high but just that the heart and the mind both synchronize to give u a feel that u can't just take any non-sense from anyone (third person).in such case it’s always been a war between right and wrong.
BUT, BUT, BUT .......when this person who has misconstrue u is someone who is intimate to, u cannot help giving justifications and then in that scenario it is not that u are wrong and your guilt compels u to give justifications but just that, you would like to avoid the slightest possibility of misunderstanding will make each and every sincere effort to make that person realize that you were not wrong for there is an apprehension of you falling in his or her eye. You give explanation not because you are wrong but because you love the person dearly. So when someone gives justifications it’s not always that they are wrong but it might be because of love that they attach with you....
Just give it a thought.....might be this is a justification to your justifications.
due to guilt or love...
We have been taught from our childhood that if "you are right you need not give justification or explanations to others"
I quite agree to it but to some extent, I as an individual cannot apply it in every circumstance, situation or to every person.
If my words, thought, views or actions are misinterpreted by any third person (not really close to), I would stick to my pedagogy that if you are "right u need not give justification or explanation". I would give a damn care to what that person thinks. Here to some extent the ego answers it all. Not that the ego is high but just that the heart and the mind both synchronize to give u a feel that u can't just take any non-sense from anyone (third person).in such case it’s always been a war between right and wrong.
BUT, BUT, BUT .......when this person who has misconstrue u is someone who is intimate to, u cannot help giving justifications and then in that scenario it is not that u are wrong and your guilt compels u to give justifications but just that, you would like to avoid the slightest possibility of misunderstanding will make each and every sincere effort to make that person realize that you were not wrong for there is an apprehension of you falling in his or her eye. You give explanation not because you are wrong but because you love the person dearly. So when someone gives justifications it’s not always that they are wrong but it might be because of love that they attach with you....
Just give it a thought.....might be this is a justification to your justifications.
