JUSTIFICATIONS
due to guilt or love...
We have been taught from our childhood that if "you are right you need not give justification or explanations to others"
I quite agree to it but to some extent, I as an individual cannot apply it in every circumstance, situation or to every person.
If my words, thought, views or actions are misinterpreted by any third person (not really close to), I would stick to my pedagogy that if you are "right u need not give justification or explanation". I would give a damn care to what that person thinks. Here to some extent the ego answers it all. Not that the ego is high but just that the heart and the mind both synchronize to give u a feel that u can't just take any non-sense from anyone (third person).in such case it’s always been a war between right and wrong.
BUT, BUT, BUT .......when this person who has misconstrue u is someone who is intimate to, u cannot help giving justifications and then in that scenario it is not that u are wrong and your guilt compels u to give justifications but just that, you would like to avoid the slightest possibility of misunderstanding will make each and every sincere effort to make that person realize that you were not wrong for there is an apprehension of you falling in his or her eye. You give explanation not because you are wrong but because you love the person dearly. So when someone gives justifications it’s not always that they are wrong but it might be because of love that they attach with you....
Just give it a thought.....might be this is a justification to your justifications.
due to guilt or love...
We have been taught from our childhood that if "you are right you need not give justification or explanations to others"
I quite agree to it but to some extent, I as an individual cannot apply it in every circumstance, situation or to every person.
If my words, thought, views or actions are misinterpreted by any third person (not really close to), I would stick to my pedagogy that if you are "right u need not give justification or explanation". I would give a damn care to what that person thinks. Here to some extent the ego answers it all. Not that the ego is high but just that the heart and the mind both synchronize to give u a feel that u can't just take any non-sense from anyone (third person).in such case it’s always been a war between right and wrong.
BUT, BUT, BUT .......when this person who has misconstrue u is someone who is intimate to, u cannot help giving justifications and then in that scenario it is not that u are wrong and your guilt compels u to give justifications but just that, you would like to avoid the slightest possibility of misunderstanding will make each and every sincere effort to make that person realize that you were not wrong for there is an apprehension of you falling in his or her eye. You give explanation not because you are wrong but because you love the person dearly. So when someone gives justifications it’s not always that they are wrong but it might be because of love that they attach with you....
Just give it a thought.....might be this is a justification to your justifications.
10 comments:
you,ve given a very good explaination of justification.Keep it up.
Hey.....
U r just going eccentric. Fine its cool whether u want or u dont want 2 give justifications, but atleast make sure u justify wid ur studies. Hope we dont hear any more comments from ur teachers in future. Rest, gud effort unless it does not hamper other much more significant things in life
nice post. and hope u continue to give 'justifications'(if that's what u call it)lest there arises some communication gap in between.
@shubham - wht's crazy in this? i think u can expect things such as this from her....and it's not crap.
@ anshvey - nice to see you here.Well how does it feel to have your own creation?
i appreciate your concern though.
waise have you seen taare zamin par?
hey nice theory yaar...maine pehle kabhi is baare main soocha nahi tha but when i read ur post i was really compelled to give it a thought...
great going...
@vivek-Hey......
Nice to hear frm u after a long time. howz life? howz coll.?
Sorry bt i didnt understand the my creation bit.
I m glad atleast u understood dat my being concerned is right. I'l appreciate it if u could make this girl understand the same.
c u then.tc.bye.
nice one....
keep it up......
go on justifying the bitter secrets of life like this.......
WARNING!
GUYS PLZ DONT READ DIS
'COZ I DID NOT UNDERSTOOD DIS
BUT IT SEEMS 2 B VERY SENTI
SO JUST HAV A LUK AT IT
NO MORE THAN DIS
ELSE IT WUD HAV A BAD EFFECT ON U
i cant believe i just read this again..lol!!!!!
was getting bored....
jst had my minor.... and yes i jst gt to know dat even i can write... filled six pages.... no clue wat went in there.....bt yes i wrote.....:P
m writing crapp cuzz i dont know wat to do..... byee... ciao....
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